More British Poly talk...hierarchy

I took part in some more talk on the UK boards about hierarchy and Poly families.  I am actually really encouraged by it, there is a lot more variety now than seemed to be the case  before, more people claiming non hierarchy, more people looking into the idea of living in a Poly family. 


The talk was lively and not at all as polarised as one might think.  Perhaps all the steadfast hierarchal Poly people ignored the threads?  Fearing judgement?  Or maybe hierarchy is less important than it once was?

One thing married people have trouble with is the concept of a person putting limitations on their love just so another person can feel special and the most important.